From £300DFK Meaning: Deep French Kissing Explained
DFK stands for deep French kissing. It is the mildest term on any escort listing and, oddly, one of the most decisive: it tells you more about what an hour will actually feel like than most of the explicit ones do.
What it means
Proper kissing, with tongue, as you would kiss someone you were seeing. That is the whole definition.
The reason it is listed at all is that plenty of escorts do not offer it. Kissing is the thing most often held back, because it is the most personal part of the encounter rather than the most explicit. It is entirely normal for someone to offer a long list of far more explicit services and not offer this one.
Browse the DFK listings.
DFK against FK
You will see both on listings and they are not the same:
- FK: French kissing. Kissing with tongue, but lighter and briefer. See the FK listings.
- DFK: the same thing without holding back.
The distinction is real but it is one of degree, and in practice how it goes depends more on how the two of you get on than on which three letters were printed.
Why it is the term worth reading first
An hour with kissing and an hour without are different experiences, whatever else is on offer. If you are booking for the girlfriend experience, DFK is close to the point of it, and a GFE listing that omits kissing is worth a question on the call.
If you are booking for something more direct, it may not matter to you at all. Either is fine. What is not worth doing is discovering the answer at the door.
What it costs
Nothing extra, in almost every case. It is either offered or it is not, and it is part of the booking when it is. That is another reason it functions as a signal: nobody is charging for it, so its presence or absence reflects a preference rather than a price.
A note on the obvious
Clean teeth, and no cigarettes immediately beforehand. It is the least demanding request in this guide and it is declined more often over this than anything else.
Where to go next
The GFE explainer covers the booking DFK matters most to, and the OWO explainer covers the other oral shorthand.
The London escort guide has the full glossary, prices and etiquette.


